For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open.
Yovanna Ventura. Age: 31. I describe myself as a genuine, smart and elegant lady and very positive about life. I borned and grow up in South America, it means I have a happy and open personality. I like to talk,but no worries , I am able to listen too. I only lead with elegant people and respectful, it means a lot to me.
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I used to have a great monogamous sex life with my husband, usually with multiple orgasms during foreplay and intercourse. That was before he became ill and I lost him. My friends reminded me that I had attained everything important to a good life. Their marriages are full of joy, fruitful and I am experiencing the joy of Grandchildren! On a more intimate note, after losing my husband, I made a decision to foreswear sexually intimate relationships with men, figuring that this was no more likely to provoke insanity than a vow to limit one's consumption of chocolate. Well, not true. With the help of friends, I overcame my earlier feelings of guilt and sought to bring sexual delight back in my life.
Anya. Age: 24. I will show you the world where the sexual dreams become real, and the graceful nymph is ready to serve you with every cell of her body and experience.
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So it's cheating together. It's a freedom we give each other and that's very liberating". This might sound odd, but it's like having a really great car and watching yourself in the mirror as you drive down the street," so says the swinger's boyfriend.
Men bring their wives to the club for the first time, women bring the men back there after…. Having been in the lifestyle for many years, I think I can help make swinging easier and more enjoyable for both men and women. Why is that? It is very simple. Nothing will happen if the woman is not happy, and if something happens anyway, it will be your last night in the club.